
12 ways to splurge -- frugally
Today is National Splurge Day. Use these tips to celebrate without breaking the budget.
In 1994 a public-relations agent named Adrienne Sioux Koopersmith invented National Splurge Day. In a recent post on her blog, Koopersmith suggested that people not only treat themselves but also "splurge (unto) others as (you'd) want others to splurge unto you."
Although I'm a frugalist, I completely agree.
Nonessential items or experiences improve your quality of life and help keep you true to your financial goals. I relish the occasional splurge, whether it's a trip to the United Kingdom or just a high-quality cupcake.
But my splurges are frugal ones. I see no reason not to plan a trip, get a massage or take my niece and her two boys out for lunch. I also see no reason to overpay for my good times.
Here are some of the ways I splurge without breaking the bank.
Online cost-cutters
1. Cash-back shopping: Sites such as Extrabux.com, ShopAtHome.com and Mr. Rebates get finders' fees for sending you to thousands of retailers. They share those fees with you, to the tune of 1% to 30% back on whatever you buy.
2. Deal sites: Electronics, apparel, toys, jewelry, sometimes even half-price gift cards -- you can find some pretty astonishing prices at sites like Dealnews, FatWallet.com and MyBargainBuddy.com. Prices are sometimes so low it can be a little too easy to buy. (See "4 ways to kill impulse buying.") But do keep an eye out because the nice purse or the drill-bit set you're saving for might show up at a today-only price.
3. Discounted gift cards: Buy plastic for hundreds of retailers (including restaurants and movie theaters) on the secondary market and use them like cash. I save 3% to 20% this way.
5. Online discount codes: Coupon Cabin, RetailMeNot, Savings.com and similar sites dig up discounts and free shipping codes for almost anything you can imagine.
6. Social buying: Sites like Groupon, Living Social and City Deals offer discounted deals for a huge variety of products and services. Note: Groupon and City Deals can be accessed through cash-back shopping sites such as Extrabux, FatWallet or Mr. Rebates for additional savings of up to 6%.
In-person savings
7. Coupon books: These collections of buy-one-get-one coupons and other discounts are available in both national (e.g., The Entertainment Book) and local formats (such as Seattle's Chinook Book). Note: The Entertainment Book can be ordered via cash-back shopping sites, for discounts of up to 30%.
8. Garage sales: Like thrift stores, only outdoors -- and the deals are often much better. I've treated myself to great books (and bought great gifts) for as little as a quarter.
9. My Coke Rewards: free movie tickets.
10. Gofobo.com: free movie screenings.
11. Thrift stores: Some people swear they'd never shop secondhand. Others swear by the bargains. Stores vary in selection and quality, but I've bought clothes for me and gifts for others this way.
12. Assorted travel deals: Buddy passes have gotten me some incredibly cheap trips. Hostels aren't luxurious, but I got a week in New York City for the price of one night in a Manhattan hotel (tell me a week in NYC isn't a splurge). The Megabus took me from New York to Philadelphia for $1 (yes, $1).
Other ways to live it up
Splurges aren't always about big outlays of cash, incidentally. Setting aside an afternoon or evening for some homemade spa treatments is a relaxing treat. Bonus: After this kind of splurge you both look and feel better.
Or how about something like:
- Finding someone to keep your kids overnight so you and your partner can have a grown-up date.
- Making a special meal with a really good cut of meat (or some artisan bread and heirloom vegetables) and a bottle of wine.
- A free DVD from the library and some flavored popcorn.
- Inviting friends over for tea.
- Watching for a mystery shopping assignment for a local hotel (it feels like a mini-vacation).
Readers: What's your favorite frugal splurge?
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A week in a hostel sounds more like a punishment rather than a "splurge," no matter what city you are in. I tried to stay in an "upscale" hostel in Paris some years ago in my 20s. By upscale I mean that it was the most expensive one I could find and I actually had my own private room and did not have to bunk with anyone. Frugal? Sure. A "splurge"? Not unless you consider a dark brick room the size of a prison cell, and a bathroom shared with dozens of other people a "splurge." I lasted about one day and then moved on to a real hotel. Sure, it cost more money, but I now have much better memories of Paris. That's a splurge.
The word "splurge and your column about frugality do not go together. It just doesn't work.
One of the items I'm packing is a fabulous dress that makes me look like a million bucks. It seriously looks like it was tailor made for me.
This sparkly number (bejeweled with small, black rhinestones) set me back about $5 at a local Thrift store. Since I look great in it I will relish the compliments that much more aboard ship. Many of the items for my trip will be second hand.
I might mention that after my cruise I'll get a 4% rebate from Upromise in exchange for using their travel service and got a 3% discount on the cruise for paying with cash.
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