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Frugality: The right life choice

Build a life with meaning by embracing a frugal ethos. You won't be sorry. And yes, you can still have fun.

By Donna_Freedman Feb 21, 2012 2:01PM
At first I was frugal because I had to be. Now I'm frugal because I want to be. And I want you to be frugal, too.

Relax: I'm not going to make you wash out Ziploc bags with homemade detergent and cold water. There's no One True Path to follow. You won't get kicked out of the movement if you forget your coupons.

Oh, and forget what you think you knew about the word "frugal," which has somehow come to mean "joyless self-denial." What it actually means is choosing to live a life without waste, a life in which each decision means something.

There's nothing cooler than self-determination -- and frugality doesn't limit your choices. It just refines them. (Post continues below)
My personal mantra is "I save where I can so I can spend where I want." Living this way means asking a few important questions: 
  • What do I want?
  • Why do I want it?
  • How can I get it with the least amount of impact?
"Impact" means impact not just to your wallet, but also to the world around you. For example, being careful with your money lets you shop locally or sustainably, since it costs more to buy fruit at the farmers market or to build a "green" home.

Frugality might let you stay home with a child, start your own business, scratch that sabbatical itch or get two years' worth of toothpaste free with coupons. (Hey, we all have different dreams.)

Looking at money differently

Although the frugal life requires careful choices, these choices quickly become habit.  Remember the first time you ever drove a car, used a computer, changed a diaper? Now you can do such things without thinking. They're second nature.

Creativity and careful spending kept me afloat during several tough times in my life, including as a broke 21-year-old mom in a big city and more recently after a protracted divorce.

Each time I found that you can live well without spending much money. Believe me, that's way more fun than living with the stress of books that won't balance.

The truth is that I'm living more fully than I ever have because I'm making specific, informed choices about the way I spend my money.

In the past half-dozen years, frugality has allowed me to pay off divorce-related debt, build an emergency fund, earn a college degree, travel extensively, save for retirement and donate to charity. And, yeah, to get a couple of years' worth of toothpaste free with coupons.

I want to help you look at money differently. (Hint: It's a useful tool. It is not a religion.) To that end I'll share a mix of freebies and frugal hacks that will save you cash in both the short and long term.

Living within your means does not translate to a life of lack. Come back every day and you'll see what I mean.
37Comments
Apr 13, 2012 10:33AM
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I follow a lot of the MSN blogs....BelaGhostly is a political troll and the very incorrectly named Mr.Manners is just a negative, nasty troll.  Don't feed them, just ignore.

 

Mar 30, 2012 7:51AM
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We don't call it being "frugal"...we call it "financial discipline". I feel that if more people had financial discipline instead of "keeping up with the Jones" this country would be better off. Whenever the economy periodically turns bad people would have a better chance of adapting & surviving hard times...rather than complaining & being on government assistance. The wife & I have lived the "financial discipline" life for 20 years now...retired in our 50's...watch our money & investments grow. When a unexpected medical bill showed up...paid cash...no worry. When the TV went out...paid cash...no worry. When we want something special or extra we save up for it.   

Mar 27, 2012 3:51PM
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frugality sucks it's like climbing the ladder of success make few steps only to be set back deeper by 1 snatch by whomever.
Feb 27, 2012 6:00PM
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Justin Wilson once performed a skit that ended with the Princess in the tiger trap calling out to the passing Prince " Frugal Me! Frugal Me!". I guess that makes me old. But the concept " to save" is a good way to live. Just living within your means once was enough, but today to ensure income over a  lifetime  requires saving at a much higher rate. One of the best ways to save is not paying interest. One of the biggest lies going is mortgage interest deductibility. You never get to deduct all your mortgage interest, you only get back the amount equal to your marginal tax rate. But you still spent the money! Hum what does that mean? You bought that $200K home and financed for 30 years @ 5% interest over the term you paid about $186K interest (PI $1074). Lets say your marginal tax rate averages 13%  so you had a return of $24K over 30 years (avg $806 Annually). Actual money spent $162K. Why didn't I get a 15 year mortgage? Same  $200K mortgage finance for 15 years @ 4.5% interest over the term you paid about $75K interest (PI $1530). Same marginal tax rate of 13% returns about $9750 over 15 years (avg $650 annually).  Actual money spent $65K.  What could you do with $97000.

 

Feb 26, 2012 4:33AM
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MaltiMama...replying to your post.  I am sorry for your current troubles.  You really need to see a Mental Health Therapist  or Psychologist.  See a medical Dr. about depression.  You can't understand or see depression very well when you are experiencing it so you need people from the outside to see if that is your problem.  And then look for spirtual help in your life,  we all need a reason to live. Hoping and praying for you.
Feb 24, 2012 7:18PM
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Frugality is the easiest path to living debt free, and living debt free is as close to real freedom as you'll ever get in this life.

I agree with Donna that frugality doesn't mean living poorly or without things you need or really want.  It's like eating a healthful diet.  You just need to pay attention, do your own research, use common sense, and develop a little self discipline.
Feb 22, 2012 9:41PM
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Mr. Manners:  Donna is not trying to convince herself.  She has helped multiple people during her career.  She's done more frugal living to get ahead than anyone I know.  If she was lazy and on welfare, you'd probably have plenty to say about that. 

I think you owe her an apology.  That would be the 'Mr. Manners' thing to do.

Feb 22, 2012 8:57PM
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Gas may even go as high as $6/gal - ouch! I will definately need some frugal ideas to offset that expense.
Feb 22, 2012 8:33PM
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And the "legend" grows...LOL. Don't know how you juggle it all! Donna how about some frugal ideas on coping with rising gas and home heating oil prices. MAN...I just saw where $5 gas may be here come Summer.....SUPER! ... My thought is that will put a crimp on many a budget.
Feb 22, 2012 7:53PM
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Boy, do I need this blog. I went from welfare getting 624 dollars a month and food stamps to earning almost 20,000 dollars a month. I earned that for 3 years until several of my clients shut down. Now I am struggling on 12,050 a month and thats about to drop to 4,600.00 a month. When I was earning the big big bucks, I got credit cards. I had about 60,000 of available credit combined on 10 cards. I never charged over 6 or 7 thousand usually and I paid them off every month, it was just fun to have them. I never checked the price of anything, bought whatever I wanted. I even bought my sister a car one month. I took people on vacation, spent money like a millionaire. I did this because I decided I deserved it after being with a lazy dude who never worked for 15 years.Then suddenly, the clients folded and I was stuck not having the money to pay for those cards. Then I got sick with liver failure and about died. I was out of it for 18 months, and my credit spiraled into the toilet. The biggest problem is that I still want to spend money like that. I don't want to save it. I see ppl on here who get joy from having money saved. WHY? i mean, i really don't know. My favorite day of any month is payday so I can hit the stores and I pout because I have such a limited income now. I could hit the pavement and round up new clients but increasingly I hate my work. I have no desire to do it anymore, its toxic, and killing me. Its thankless, and I hate the whole bid, award, get kicked to the curb process. I don't know how to do anything else and apparently, I have no desire to learn. What do you folks suggest?
Feb 22, 2012 7:19PM
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I buy what i need not what i want
do i need a 50 in tv  no want  yes
need i pad yes need no
new car  no so on

Feb 22, 2012 6:48PM
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@Fyermn: I feel that way myself. Why spend more than you have to, for no good reason?
Bonus: If you save where you can, you will be able to spend where you want on whatever YOU want.


Feb 22, 2012 6:46PM
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Currently there is no way to subscribe. Please just bookmark the page and come back each weekday for the latest tips and tactics.
Thanks to all for your kind comments. I hope you'll comment and offer tips of your own on future posts.

Feb 22, 2012 6:14PM
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I'm with jana63, how do I subscribe? Frugality is my life after recovering from a bad divorce with a small child. My ex is confused on how I'm able to afford vacations and treats for the two of us! We don't miss out at all...to quote Dave Ramsey.... living like no one else so later I can LIVE like no else!
Feb 22, 2012 5:36PM
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It is MY MONEY, and I want to keep as much of it as I can, in my  pocket.  It makes no sense to just waste money just because you can. A time may come when you may need that money you have spent foolishly.
How many are their that owe a lot of money( school loans, credit cards, mortgage or rent, car payments, or whatever) but still have all the TOYS, and are having trouble paying for it all?  As I stated in the beginning, IT IS MY MONEY and I want to keep as much as I can in MY POCKET!

Feb 22, 2012 5:01PM
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Frugality: The right life choice.......He maketh me to lie down in green pastures.
Feb 22, 2012 4:19PM
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Bela Ghostly, your response makes no freakin' sense whatsoever in regards to this article.  What an idiot.
Feb 22, 2012 3:55PM
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Why is it , even in the simplest articles there is always at least one that has to bring up politics, conspiracies and hate. That doesn't belong here. This is for all of us that wish to help and share ideas with how to live life easier and more affordable in these tougher times.
Feb 22, 2012 3:03PM
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This should be an interesting series. I would be curious to read the articles and the comments. It's interesting to see all the new technics and ideas that come up in the just the comments alone. I have have learned how to cut my bills, pay my house down, make homemade laundry detergent, how to shop for the deals... My friends used to think frugal was another word for being a cheap a$$, until I had taught them many ideas I had learned from places like this. Now we are all enjoying the fruits of our yield and are no longer with any serious debt issues even though many had gone through divorces, bankruptcies, estate issues etc.
Feb 22, 2012 2:33PM
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FRUGAL IS THE WORD that my country knows---where I was born in the 3rd world country. So when I came to this country, I don't have any family to run to -only the bank is my friend.  I apply for student loans for 4 years and when I graduated I paid it less than a 3 years.  Everytime I gotten tax refund I paid half what I am getting.  My dream was to buy a house THE AMERICAN DREAM. Got 2 jobs save every penny.  Bought a used car Honda and drove it for 10 years. After 10 years of saving being frugal and thrifty  I have enough money to have a big down payment.  I still have the house and now I'm remodeling.  What I am trying to say being frugal/thrifty or cheap sometimes was and still in me because is the way I was brought up.  So being FRUGAL is not stranged to me at all.  One thing I observed when I new in this country people waste a lot of money.  In my opinion, this country will live frugally because of our economy.

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Donna Freedman, a writer based in Anchorage, Alaska, writes the Frugal Nation blog for MSN Money. She won regional and national prizes during an 18-year newspaper career and earned a college degree in midlife without taking out student loans. Donna also writes about the frugal life for her own site, Surviving and Thriving.

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