1/19/2013 4:00 AM ET|
House lust, now a more somber affair
Five years after the housing bubble burst, we’re still searching for our dream homes. But gnawing uncertainty now colors the hunt.
For many first-time buyers, a no-frills starter home would be the answer to their dreams. Daphne Earley envies them. She and her husband have been house shopping for about a year, looking at ever-nicer districts, ever-more expensive homes, but they can't find what they want. And they don't want what they see.
"For some people, it's so easy. We have friends; she's a teacher, he's a cop. They just bought a modest home, probably in the upper $300,000s to $400,000 range. Why can't we be that?"
Obsessing, but not buying
Initially, Daphne and her husband imagined they'd buy a fixer-upper, until they toured a new home. Now, only new or remodeled properties look good. "We just fell in love with all the gleaming hardwood floors, nice granite kitchen countertops, nice tile bathrooms," she says.
She's got house lust, she says. She dreams of walk-in closets, a big master bedroom and bath, tall ceilings and ample square footage.
During the real-estate boom of 2001 to 2006, house lust -- a term used by author Daniel McGinn in his book, "House Lust: America's Obsession With Our Homes"-- was in the air. "Even as we realized the boom couldn't last, it was as if we couldn't help ourselves," McGinn wrote. House lust led buyers to spend money they didn't have on homes that were bigger and fancier than they needed.
What a difference five years of hard times makes. According to the online real-estate database Zillow, real estate gained about $1.3 trillion in value last year, the first uptick since 2006. Prices are rising. In some cities, it's difficult even to find homes for sale. The housing market is finally recovering.
But recovery is a relative term. Researchers at the residential real-estate site Trulia say the market is at 47% of normal now. That's a long way from solid and dependable. Foreclosures still clutter many neighborhoods.
In such a world, is there still a place for house lust?
McGinn seemed like the guy to ask. He came clean in his book about his own case of house lust and admitted to covetously looking up friends' home purchases in the county sales tax records to see what they paid. He got so caught up in his book research that, at the top of the bubble, he bought an investment property -- sight unseen -- in the real-estate boomtown of Pocatello, Idaho.
That purchase is not a subject he's eager to discuss today. It's for sale now, for slightly more than he paid. "It's not selling, probably because the town has so many foreclosures," he says.
The changing landscape
House lust has power because a home plays so many roles in our lives in addition to providing shelter. It's a status symbol, wealth repository, family nest and creative outlet, to name just a few.
"These are still hard impulses to rein in," McGinn says. "It's great to have a good (investment account) balance, but you can't throw a dinner party in your 401k. For a long while, housing felt like the great two-for-one special. You got this great investment and oh, by the way, you got to live in it, which isn't true today."
Irrational as the excesses of the boom were, McGinn says it also made crazy sense given the times. Rising home values offered ordinary people a chance to maybe make a killing, fund a retirement or just get ahead in a time when household incomes were slipping.
"We used to play the market, and then we started to play our houses," McGinn says.
Today, 20% of homebuyers are investors. But these are not the same mom-and-pop investors whose reckless speculation fueled the housing boom, says Lawrence Yun, the chief economist for the National Association of Realtors.
Today's bargain-hunting, cash-paying investors represent institutions such as Blackstone Group, a private equity firm that recently spent $2.5 billion on 16,000 single family homes, making it the biggest private real-estate owner in the country. With interest rates low, investors are looking to rental income for higher yields, Yun says.
House lust in 2013
Today, most homebuyers are chastened by the housing crash. "On the whole, people are being a little bit more careful about how much they spend on a house," McGinn says. "And if they aren't, their (mortgage) brokers are enforcing a little more discipline."
The Earleys may have house lust, but they aren't spending recklessly. In fact, they can't seem to spend at all. They've viewed and toured dozens and dozens of homes, but they can't seem to commit. The decision feels so final, she says.
They can afford a nice home, she says. She is 30 and owns an online fashion jewelry business. At 40, he has a technology consulting company.
But they want a really nice home, in a top-ranked school district with a Mayberrylike small town setting. Oh, and at a price they can afford. But, in northern New Jersey, across the Hudson River from New York City, where median home prices run $650,000 to $900,000, that's a tall order.
"This is really about just lusting after our perfect home," Daphne says. She stays up late nights browsing online listings, although she already knows them by heart. They started shopping last summer with a relatively modest budget. It grew as the search wore on. Touring a home priced at $585,000, "we had to walk out," she recalls. Her husband, apologizing to the agent, "said he couldn't be in a home that wasn't what he wanted."
They and their two toddlers spend every Sunday driving from open house to open house. They came close to buying recently but backed away. They could compromise -- a smaller home, a less-terrific school district, a longer commute -- but they won't. At least, not now. So they anguish over the question daily, sometimes all day. They discuss homes face to face, by phone, text, Skype and email, talking over the options, what their strategy should be, which open houses to attend next. "It's taking over our lives," she says.
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