Now that they're in their mid-40s, Janice and Jason's main priorities include saving for college and retirement. Janice, who's now back in the workforce, has become more easygoing about personal spending. Jason, on the other hand, still saves carefully: "I always feel a burden to support my family, and I feel it's my responsibility to ensure that everyone has what they need." They continue their weekly status reports, hashing out budgets along with their schedules and other responsibilities.

For their personal entertainment budgets, they both keep any five-dollar bill that passes through their hands. "If we ask our friends to come out with us, they'll ask, 'Do you have a bunch of fives burning a hole in your pocket?' " Janice says. "It's an easy way to have fun with saving -- and it makes going out less painful financially."

Daphne and Fred Cohn, Davis, Calif.

"For many years, we never talked about finances," Daphne admits. "That started to change as we saw how unhealthy it was for our relationship."

Fred, now 57, was a disciplined saver, while Daphne, 41, felt that budgeting "sucked the fun out of life." She hid some of her spending, but soon realized that it eroded their mutual trust.

Since Fred is closer to retirement age, he is more focused on ensuring their financial freedom in the years ahead. "I have a much deeper appreciation of just how much savings will be required to maintain our current lifestyle," he says.

After 13 years together, they now agree on key financial goals, such as school tuition for their children and their retirement savings. They talk through their financial plans every month, as well as when they're considering any big purchase. The more they do this, Fred has found, the better it gets. "Our easiest talks are when we schedule regular reviews of our 'books,' " Fred says.

"Now we sit down together, each with our laptop, and look over our bills and incomes," Daphne adds. And while she still finds budgeting a chore, she admits that it helps to set a relaxing mood: "We put on soft music, light candles and have a glass of wine. This makes the whole thing more enjoyable."

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