And beyond the economic significance, there's the emotional struggle that comes with letting go of decades' worth of memory-laden stuff. As David Ekerdt, director of the Gerontology Center of the University of Kansas, puts it, "They're not just things. They're you." But the disconnect between perceived value and actual value when the kids don't want their parents' stuff and the market is overrun can be a cold splash of reality.
"What are people going to do?" asks Chicago appraiser Jane C.H. Jacob, a trustee of the nonprofit Appraisal Foundation. "Dig a ditch and put it in a landfill?"
Indeed, it's hard to know where to start. Selling things piecemeal on eBay and Craigslist? Too time-consuming. A weekend garage sale? Too much work and too hard to figure out pricing. (And what happens with all the unsold stuff?) Like the Tullers, many downsizers begin the liquidation process by interviewing a quirky collection of small-business folk who run estate sales, at companies with names like A Couple of Dusty Old Bags or 2MuchStuff4Me. No one tracks this unlicensed, unregulated universe of mostly family-run firms, but according to John Buckles, the founder of Caring Transitions, the industry's first franchised business, the sector pulls in at least $5 billion a year.
In Southern California, Betty Ulemek got her first taste of the liquidation industry last fall, when the Santa Ana resident decided it was time to sell her late brother's houseful of lovingly acquired collections -- glass, china, clocks and such -- and found an estate-sale company the way many people do: by asking the real-estate agent listing his house. Experienced liquidators say most of their referrals come from clients, real-estate agents, estate lawyers or estate trustees. Some are even paid as much as $10,000 by senior-living centers to help new residents get "unstuck" from a longtime home.
The firm Ulemek was referred to, South Hills Antiques & Estate Sales, is fairly typical: It's run by a sole proprietor, Anita Sassounian, who's self-taught in the ways of valuation and who conducts a side business as an eBay seller. Ten years in, the energetic former waitress, who wears a black apron at sales and calls out that she's "86ing" a misbehaving customer, charges 35% of the final kitty. (Depending on the size of a house and the quality of its contents, a sale can gross between a few thousand dollars and $100,000, with the majority falling in the $5,000 to $15,000 range.)
For her cut, Sassounian offers extensive advertising (her mailing list yields more than a few die-hard big spenders who sleep overnight in front of the house for the privilege of first dibs); staffs the sale with up to a dozen helpers; and transforms the home into a retail boutique, polishing silver, washing baseboards and bringing in tables, racks and display cases. When it's all over, she arranges for leftovers to be donated and leaves the house, in industry parlance, "broom clean."
In the liquidation milieu, many firms operate on a handshake basis. But the more documentation a liquidator provides, the less room there is for squirrelly dealing or outright stealing. This is, after all, a business where strangers spend days in a house, often unsupervised, handling every single object and finding surprises ranging from Mom's rainy-day cash stash to letters from Dad's secret mistress.
Sassounian works with a contract that leaves little to misinterpretation, helping to ensure, for example, that when a sale's proceeds are to be distributed to heirs, family members can't remove items from the house once the contract is signed. When the sale is done, she provides the estate trustee with an inventory, complete with prices paid. In a field with no licensing, accreditation or official means of censure, Sassounian says, "my reputation is everything."
Critical to the sale's success, of course, is whether she's gotten the pricing right low enough to tempt bargain lovers while getting as close as possible to the fair market value. To research prices of items she's unsure of, Sassounian says, she photographs them and does research on sites like eBay and Google. Because so few liquidators have formal appraisal training, critics question their ability to accurately price the dizzying number of items and to understand the subtleties of how quality, condition and rarity come into play.
"I'd be careful of the person who claims to know the value of everything," says New York art attorney Amy Goldrich. "Most of the time they can have no idea if it's a fake or a copy, especially if they're doing a quick Web search."
For her part, Sassounian says she brings in outside experts whenever she runs across an unfamiliar item. Still, Ulemek wishes the prices had been higher. "I can't believe she sold my brother's wonderful stuff for pennies," she says, adding that she'd have liked to have been on-site during the sale to press for higher prices.
For Sassounian and her peers, that frequently spells trouble, since as they tell it, clients will sometimes put the kibosh on a sale either because they're bogged down in the emotional value ("I've seen people hug toasters because they can remember making toast in the morning," says Hall, the Charlotte liquidator) or they can't imagine that their treasures have depreciated at all from the original retail price. ("I always tell them to take a zero off what they bought it for," says Sassounian.)
Ultimately, Ulemek's brother's belongings brought in upward of $50,000, even with the modest pricing. "And when all was said and done," Ulemek admits, brightening, "the house was nice and clean."
But a clean path to life's next phase can also start at an auction house. More than $20 billion worth of household items, art, antiques and collectibles sold in a competitive-bid environment in 2008 alone, the most recent year the National Auctioneers Association polled its members.
On a chilly Monday morning, the staff at one Philadelphia-area firm, Dutch Auction Sales, is hard at work, dispersing the contents of hundreds of households, more or less en masse. And for those with stars in their eyes about the auction market for middle-market furniture and household goods, a trip to Dutch, which caters largely to the wholesale crowd, offers a bracing reality check. Indeed, some of what's offered here is stuff that didn't sell in estate sales, and the occasionally shocking prices ($10 for a hefty antique oak round table in perfectly fine condition) show how the great American sell-off is hurting prices for boomers everywhere.
"Onedollah, onedollah, onedollah," the auctioneer intones. "Sold for . . . one dollar," he says of the decent-looking seven-piece patio set. Forget the image of a Sotheby's swell with French cuffs and an accent to match. This auction impresario sports a bushy handlebar mustache, scruffy jeans and an unzipped hoodie. He carries a liter bottle of Pepsi in one hand and a wireless mic in the other as he moves briskly with a cluster of buyers across a football-field-size area covered with rows and rows of household castoffs: boxed lots of tools, fat 10-year-old TVs and computer monitors, vintage yearbooks, old plastic rocking horses.
The bidders, mostly flea marketeers and eBay resellers, know exactly when to let a whole row of junk pass at $5 and when to pay up for treasures like a newish wine fridge ($17), 1960s-era Bose speakers ($80) or a (presumably working) snowblower ($160).
Every two weeks, Dutch processes more than 7,000 items in a marathon that starts at sunup and lasts often into the wee hours, operating in and around a hangar-size warehouse. With relentlessly paced three-ring auction action, it processes a steady stream of items culled largely from middle-class homes: antique furniture piled three or four high; tabletop lots of toys, china, silver and books; and those junkier lots outside.
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Done yard sales and estate sales for over 40 years. Here are some hints:
If you want more than a buck, price it!
Do not have boxes of un-priced items, like a dime box, and un-priced items on display - they WILL get mixed.
Have a pay table at the head of your sale so that people have to walk past you to go to their car.
Have your sale on a Saturday. Friday sales - most of the people there are dealers and they are looking for deals - they also haggle a ton more that anyone else. Think of what you are making as an hourly wage, adding a Friday rarely pays for the time from work and you lose that many more Saturday sales and profits. If you are a home worker - it may pay out, but I doubt it. Our Friday / Saturday estate sales average about 9,000 or Saturday only sales average about 9,500. Also, hang on till 2pm, lots of stragglers out there and almost everyone is done by Noon or 1pm.
Greet everyone as soon as you can - especially before they start looking.
Don't start offering deals - its a yard sale - the people that normally ask will, and those that don't will do so because you offered.
You can not advertise too much or have too many signs giving directions - after about an hour, send someone out to check your signs - it is amazing how many fall over or walk off for coffee...
If you have something you really WANT to get rid of, put it in a box - under a table - with something strange written on the side; people will be attracted to that box like rats to cheese. It sells every time.
Don't forget the guys! Pile every stray screw, nail, and piece of junk hardware into a big cookie tin - put $5 on it and it will be gone within the first hour.
Second to last but not least, if you have a bunch of dime toys, cool rocks or shells, and/or stuffed critters, think about giving them to the kids as they show up - this hooks the bigger kids - aka the parents. If they still get away, you are only out something that would probably not have sold anyway BUT the friendly feeling is there for next year. You have also helped create another generation of "yarders".
Last but NOT least, gather up the remainders and donate them - if you made the decision to get rid of it - do so, and get a donation receipt for your taxes or a nice pile of Karma points out of the deal.
I'm now 66 and planning on down sizing soon. I've been throwing out the junk and giving anything decent to the kids or charity. The process involves several passes maybe months apart and you will find yourself becoming more ruthless on each pass. Most of what you have is out of date, or won't fit in a smaller place and doesn't have any value today, even many antiques.
Clearing the clutter also clears the mind!.
I can attest to the truthfulness of the article. My mom, who died in May, lived in a large home and I was forced to transition her to an assisted living home last year. It took months of sorting and four "estate" sales to liquidate her belongings and I still have a storage unit full of her papers and collectibles. I let depression glass and lead crystal go for a few dollars each. And her beautiful cherry dining table, chairs and china cabinet (in mint condition) were sold for next to nothing. She had so much stuff (she loved china, glass, crystal in particular) that is was simply overwhelming. I've never collected like her, but it inspired me not to leave a mess for anyone to clean up after I leave this earth.
I then started on my own home, simplifying what I can. I recently sold a beautiful 19th century mahogany serpentine cabinet which was worth at least $1500.00 for $300.00; the market just isn't there any longer, especially for more formal antiques. I think primitives and the more casual things are still selling. I call it the "Pottery Barn" effect - people want casual living right now. It will change again.
I have a huge collection of rare recordings (my dad owned a recording company) from the 1950's but there is no longer a store in my area dealing in vinyl and Ebay is becoming an unpleasant place to sell stuff. I don't even know where to start with the vinyl - value and otherwise.
Hopefully younger people will start to appreciate the value of antiques and starting buying them and nice used furniture instead of the particle board junk at many furniture stores.
sorry, should have added this bit before - NEVER EVER EVER EVER - if doing an estate, throw any papers away. There was an instance where a lady was clearing out her husbands desk - they had only been married a few years and she did not know a lot of the things he had. In trying to "help" she started dumping the drawers to her husbands desk - for sure everything there was junk right??? Good thing the auction movers grabbed the trash bag. The estate cleared 16,000. However the "junk" contained 7 receipts from the US mint to the Dahlonega mint and were dated around 1850 - they sold for just under 5,000 EACH - those papers fetched almost double the rest of the estate.
Second - watch yourself on "costume" jewelry. Lots of "costume" jewelry ain't costume. Take anything you have to a local jeweler. They will help you figure out what is what. There is a trick to finding real pearls vs fake pearls - rub them on your teeth. Real uncultured pearls feel gritty. Also lots of costume jewelry is getting very expensive. If there is a name or a mark - look it up.
Hope this helps - and if those thieves from "Am Pick" show up; run them off. Do not let them near anything you or your folks have.
A 7-piece patio set for $1? Cripes, I could use that! I would have bid $2
But this article seems to suggest there's hardly any need to buy anything new these days. You can quite literally live off the castaways of society, by reusing what the previous generation couldn't.
Except for food. Not sure I'd want to buy used food at an estate sale.
Some of the clients may be upset over how little they got, but then, people tend to artifically inflate the monetary value of stuff. And really, if you NEED to get rid of it, would you rather take a bit less cash, or have to pay to have it stored? That should be a no brainer.
If you think something is worth serious money--thousands of dollars--then at least get it appraised rather than just expect that it'll sell for that. If an appraisal from a reputable source tells you it isn't worth what you thought...maybe you should concede you overvalued it?
I don't know how old you are or how large your house is but the article is true and apparently you don't get it or have yet to experience the need to "downsize". My mother's belonging simply wouldn't fit from a 2,000 sf home into a 650 sf apartment. Sometimes we cannot stay in large homes with stairs and large yards any longer. Yes, in some regards it is tied to death (in my mother's case she was 86) as a natural progression of life but in my case (56) I'm simply tired of being owned by things and trying to care for, clean, dust and store these "things". I prefer a simpler but still lovely home with only the things I really love and not just fifty years of accumulated useless things. I'm not preparing for death or being brainwashed: I'm ready to start a new phase where I can travel more, not have any debt and generally be more in touch with life instead of "stuff". My mom's most treasured belongings stayed in the family and rest found new homes where they will be appreciated and loved.
The correct terminology is "liquidating"...converting assets to cash.
Obviously, the baby boomers will experience difficulty liquidating ANYTHING in this economically-challenged era. First came the boom...and now comes the BUST!
Never understood why people buy so much junk just to sell off later. I save my pennies until I can afford the best then keep it for ever. After I'm gone who does not want the best.
Why pay $1,500+/mo plus taxes for a mortgage when I can rent for much less and let the landlord deal with repairs, taxes, landscaping, etc.
Where I live it is the other way around. Here we have lots of people renting who pay $1000 to $1500 per month or even more, while people who have bought homes or refinanced mortgages recently are paying somewhat to considerably less. There is plenty of decent housing around here for the low to mid six-figure range asking. Figure 20% down and your payment will be $500 to $700 per month, (including property taxes and insurance) which will leave some dough left over for a home warranty or a monthly-paid maintenance outfit, and if you dislike yard work you can pay some kid from down the street to do it for you. If you can afford the little extra monthly out-of-pocket cost, a 15-year fixed rate mortgage is an even better bet, and you can even shorten that paying weekly or bi-weekly too, which subtracts an extra principal payment each year. Plus homeowners generally get enough benefit from their interest and property tax deductions to receive a better tax return than renters get too.
Unless you are worried sick about having to move well away from your current neighborhood or about having to change jobs in the next few years, owning a home makes a lot more sense than renting does. You can always get a condo or patio home where the association does all of your outside maintenance too. And, when it becomes time to sell, downsize, or retire, you will have equity built-up which will enable you to pursue a much wider range of options too. How about a reverse mortgage? You can't get that renting. How about down-sizing and buying your next house outright without a mortgage? You can't do that renting either. And while you can't get foreclosed- on renting, you can sure as heck get evicted for non-payment of rent too.
Someone, a knowledgable friend years ago, told me to think twice before ever giving valuables to museums. The owner or owners of the museums, will wait, sometimes not, for the person giving the items to pass away, and they will be sold, to enrich the owner of the museum. Better idea, might be to sell the items yourself, and donate the proceeds to a worthwhile charity.
Then there is the starting, a museum scam. Large factory in the area, that had been operating for over a hundred years, closed its doors. One unscrupulous person was going to start a museum, with relics and artifacts, from the many years that the factory was in operation. He received hundreds of items. Estimating over a 100K worth of antiques and collectibles were donated to the future museum. Of course the guy never opened a museum, and the items were eventually sold on ebay, many bringing huge prices.
Bottom line, be careful, about donating antiques, to these scam artists.
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