Here's how a couple balanced family demands and their own limited budget -- and loved the results.
Note from J.D. Roth of Get Rich Slowly: This guest post from Lars is part of a new feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Every Sunday will include a reader story. Some will be general “how I did X” stories, and others will be examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success.
I got married last month. It was a bit of a whirlwind romance: At the beginning of 2009, we’d been talking about an engagement later in the year, with a wedding in 2010. Things being what they are, the engagement got moved up a couple of months, and we decided to plan a wedding for the end of the year.
The first question we had to ask ourselves was, “What size wedding do we want?” The next question was, “What can we afford?”
A little background
Let’s talk about our personal situation for a moment before I answer the questions in detail. My wife is finishing school and doesn’t work. I finished grad school 18 months ago, and had a bout of unemployment for the last four months of 2008.
As I’d just gotten out of school, I hadn’t yet amassed much of an emergency fund. I mostly lived off of credit cards during that period. After moving, paying rent for two months on two apartments, and a small weekend trip to Europe earlier this year (before the wedding was in the works ... if I had known we were getting married this year, we wouldn’t have gone), I racked up more than $10,000 in credit card debt. I set a goal in April to have my debt paid off by the end of January 2010 -- a goal I’m quite pleased to say that I’ll meet.
Basically, the takeaway here is that we didn’t have much money for a wedding.
A free online tool sheds light on the fees you're paying for your retirement accounts.
Here’s the find of the week: Carla Fried, a retirement blogger at CBS MoneyWatch, alerted readers to a new Web site that can tell you how much your 401k's are costing you in fees.
It’s been said that 401k fees are one of the great mysteries of retirement planning. If you don’t believe me, take a look at your statements. You may find some fees, but all might not be listed there. Can you easily determine what you’re paying? Are you paying too much?
In fact, the AARP says 83% of plan participants don’t know what they’re paying in 401k fees.
We just got a 401k statement from a former employer, so let’s check this new service out.
50% of surveyed couples would take parental cash in lieu of financial help with a wedding, but how about taking a more frugal approach?
Nothing brings out our inner curmudgeon more than tales of Bridezillas and extravagant, expensive weddings. If we ruled the world, all weddings would be simple and inexpensive affairs. Are we showing our age if we suggest getting married barefoot in a field of flowers?
Free Money Finance brought our attention to a Brides magazine survey that says more than half the respondents would take money from their parents in lieu of a contribution to the wedding. Really? Who are these young slackers who expect their parents to pay for a wedding?
It's easy to find out how your premiums match up with those at other companies.
I've had my car insurance through Nationwide for almost 30 years. My parents used Nationwide when I started driving, so that's who I used. Of course, back then there was no Internet or easy way to compare auto insurance quotes. You had to call agent after agent to get rates. Today, comparing auto insurance is a snap.
In fact, searching for the lowest rates is so easy, it's worth doing every year. A few years back I called Geico to see if they could beat the rates I was getting from Nationwide. Despite their commercials, they couldn't. Still, it was worth the 15-minute call. Just last month, Nationwide decided to bump up my insurance rates by $100 a year. So I'll be comparing rates this year, too.
Here's how to do it.
You can try Domino's new pizza, free Wi-Fi at McDonald's and a free yoga class.
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'Pay what you can' shows are a boost to the entertainment budget.
Pay what you can is the happy hour of entertainment, a way to get out of the house without going off the rails. In my case, it was a Thursday night performance of "Jihad Jones and the Kalashnikov Babes" at Theater Schmeater.
Retailers may track your purchases, but they'll also target you for sales.
Next time you’re out shopping and a cashier asks if you’d like to join the store’s free loyalty program, do your wallet a favor and say yes.
Turning up your nose to the offer probably means one of three things: You’re worried about retailers tracking your purchase history, you aren’t sure if you’ll have a long-term relationship with a store, or you are (for lack of a better word) lazy, says Kit Yarrow, a professor of psychology and marketing at Golden Gate University in San Francisco, whose book “Gen Buy” assesses consumers’ purchase motivations. “They view (loyalty programs) as not worth their time and effort,” she says.
You may have reasons to be suspicious, but there are counterarguments to each objection.
Relocating, even within your own city, could cut your spending.
Maybe it's a job opening in Memphis. Maybe an old friend calls from his new home in San Diego. Or maybe it's your mother, reminding you how much better the weather is in Seattle this time of year. Whatever the trigger, it's got you thinking about all the things a new house, a new job or a new life could offer, somewhere else. Now you've got something else to consider: how it could change your budget.
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