Is the economy destroying love?
Many young people are delaying 'key life decisions' like getting married and having children.
This post comes from Kimberly Palmer at partner site U.S. News & World Report.
For recent college graduates, the post-recession economy has meant a challenging job market, lower earnings, and a greater chance of moving back home with parents. As they progress through their 20s, it also means they're more likely to push off traditional milestones such as getting married and starting a family.
A new survey from Generation Opportunity, a nonprofit dedicated to engaging young adults on economic issues, found that eight in 10 young women between the ages of 18 and 29 living in Florida say they've delayed "key life decisions" because of the weak economy. Three in 10 specifically mentioned starting a family as something they will either delay or possibly skip altogether, and two in 10 said the same about marriage.
Respondents also listed a variety of other life events they're skipping or putting off: vacations, attending weddings or family reunions, buying a home and saving for retirement. In a statement, Generation Opportunity executive vice president Amber Roseboom noted that young women's "careers and dreams have been interrupted."
The survey echoes similar national findings of both genders. Earlier this year, the Pew Research Center found that almost one in three young adults between the ages of 18 and 34 say they have delayed marriage or parenthood because of the economy. About half said they have taken jobs they don't want to pay bills.
When it comes to the biggest life decisions -- when and whether to get married and have children -- money undoubtedly plays a big role. But it's possible to find ways to make both events more affordable. Marriage can even help couples save money, especially if they combine expenses they previously paid separately, such as food, housing and transportation. Couples with very different salaries, or where one spouse earns a lot and the other earns little or nothing, can also find themselves paying a lower tax rate post-nuptials. (The opposite is often true for couples who earn similar amounts.)
Babies are a little trickier. They are expensive, and getting more expensive all the time. The U.S. Department of Agriculture recently reported that babies born in 2011 will cost their parents $234,900 before age 18, which was a 3.5% increase over the previous year. That's because child care, education, transportation and food prices are all rising.
But as with marriage, there are ways to generate savings: Children can share bedrooms, parents can buy or borrow secondhand clothes and toys, and buying and cooking food in bulk can keep grocery bills down. Parents might even find that some pre-baby costs, such as restaurant meals and vacations, naturally go down with their new child-centric lifestyle.
Still, there's no avoiding the fact that marriage and parenthood often introduce new expenses into one's life. Based on the recent surveys, young adults appear to be keenly aware of that fact. Delaying either event can be the smart move for 20-somethings still struggling to find their own financial footing.
But for those intent on moving forward, either down the aisle or into parenthood, there's usually a way to make it happen without breaking the bank.
Have you delayed marriage or parenthood because of the economy?
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I did not vote for anyone because I dont want to be responsable for what is about to happen. Both republicans and dems are walking the same side of the street. Just like most all lawyers walk the same side of the street. Everbody walks their side of the street. The country has been divided.
I have never talked to any US President, I control my God given life and never let any man dictate what I do. I am living the same life I always have. To be honest, taking away Americans credit was a test, Americans have gotten weak. What if it really did get bad, where people were living in tents all around you? It's not even close to that and this Country has already given up. SICKENING.
What determines a strong unity is when folks are just as strong during the tough times...Like a marriage, when one is struggling, what do you do, just sit their and blame each other???
Quit posting comments hoping some man is going to save you, get off your **** and live.
The divorce rates go down because everyone is divorced and thoes who think about marrage normally backout because they know there is a lawyer waiting to assist in distroying the family after the children are born. That is big federal cash cow in a lawyers account. Study US history and the BAR Associations the International BAR, and who thinks they own the USA.
Some will learn now but others will learn later.
This article can't be real. The "greatest generation" grew up at or after the Great depression!!!!
They did not have any problem with it! We have spoiled our young with everything they WANT! (Not Need)
This is just the beginning of our new disfunctional economy. Thanks to all the self serving politicians.
I really enjoy the comments, such as Marc Rhodes, who condemn people on the "public dole". Having grown up in that world, I fully realize you don't have a clue and, frankly, should shut up and educate yourself about that level of living.
As far as responsibility, I see it at all levels of American society. People buying homes they can't afford, getting degrees that pay very poorly, having lifestyle expectations far beyond reality, continuing to consume at unsustainable levels, consuming 25% of the worlds resources when we are 5% of the world's population and the list goes on for a long time. I don't see any American who isn't living on the "dole" one way or another. Course for us sensitive middle class folks, the "dole" is termed in definitions our sensitive natures can handle ie tax breaks and subsidies.
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